It’s hard to believe the Christmas season is already upon us once again. It seems like just yesterday we were taking down the decorations and talking about how we can’t wait for the next Christmas, and now it’s here! We’re excited to continue some traditions we started last year and begin some new ones. Our hope for our kids is that they look back and treasure the experiences and memories we created, not so much the things that we gave them and we feel that Christmas is one of the best opportunities we have to do this.
Last year, I collected up twenty-three Christmas books that we unwrapped and read each evening in December before Christmas (with the the Bible as the last one on Christmas Eve). It was a really fun and sweet experience that the kids looked forward to each evening. Over the last few weeks I’ve mentioned our Christmas books and the kids get very excited about doing it all again this year. I’ve made just a few changes in the books this year, as I felt a few of them from last year were a little “young” for my kids and wouldn’t grow very well with me over time. If you’re looking for some ideas, here’s the list of what we’re reading this year:
1. Mr. Willowby’s Christmas Tree by Robert Barry
2. The Christmas Miracle of Jonathan Toomey by Susan Wojciechowski
3. B is for Bethlehem by Isabel Wilner
4. Silver Packages Cynthia Rylant
5. The Legend of the Christmas Rose by William Hooks
6. Saint Nicholas: The Real Story of the Christmas Legend by Julie Stiegemeyer
7. Night Tree by Eve Bunting
8. The First Christmas by Carol Heyer
9. The Little Fir Tree by Margaret Wise Brown
10. Christmas Day in the Morning by Pearl S. Buck
11. The Christmas Tree Ship by Jeanette Winter
12. All is Well by Frank Peretti
13. The Candymaker’s Gift by Helen Haidle
14. The Year of the Perfect Christmas Tree by Gloria Houston
15. Lucy’s Christmas by Donald Hall
16. A Certain Small Shepherd by Rebecca Caudill
17. Why Christmas Trees aren’t Perfect by Dick Schneider
18. The Story of the Three Wise Kings by Tomie DePaola
19. The Fourth Wise Man by Susan Summers
20. The Legend of the Poinsettia Tomie DePaola
21. The Gift of the Christmas Cookie: Sharing the True Meaning of Jesus’ Birth by Dandi Mackall
22. Cranberry Christmas by Wende and Harry Devlin
23. The Tale of Three Trees by Angela Hunt
24. Bible (Luke chapter 2)
Twenty-four books wrapped! It was a very time consuming task, but well worth it!/strong>
Another thing we’ll be doing this year is putting even less emphasis on presents for ourselves. We’ve tried to be pretty consistent with our message to the kids that life is not about gaining possessions and we’ve tried to carry that over into what we’re teaching them about Christmas. They’ve even been known to remind us or eachother “What’s important is not stuff and things!” so I think they’re getting the message. Our kids are not making lists of things they want and we don’t really talk much at all about presents for Christmas. There’s plenty of opportunity to make gifts a big part of birthdays, but Christmas is about the gift that Jesus is to us and how we can give back to Him. I was greatly impacted when I read this post by Ann Voskamp about how we can give gifts to Jesus by giving to those who are in need rather than just collecting up more stuff for ourselves. So this year we’ll be spending most of our Christmas spending money on things from gift catalogues. We’ll each have a budget, make our selections, cut out the picture or description, and wrap it up as a gift for Jesus. We’d love it if our tree had more gifts for Jesus under it than for any one of us. On Christmas we’ll get to open them up and celebrate all the wonderful things we were able to give as birthday gifts to the King!
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’” Matthew 25:40